Showing posts with label classy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label classy. Show all posts

Sunday, June 23

Celebration Date

It sure feels good to celebrate accomplishments!  James did a great job of planning the evening :)  We had reservations at Melting Pot!  I have never been & was very impressed with the evening!  I will admit my prior feelings were, "They are charging us how much to cook our own food on the table?" :)


 The infamous "cheese course"




The dinner course:
Left~ my meat selection French Quarter (Cajun spices) and Right~ the Coq a Vin cooking sauce

 The dessert course ~ my favorite!!! 

I want to come back here & just eat the chocolate course!! 

We had a lovely & fun time eating here!  I will admit I was a little nervous about having raw meat & cooked meat on the table at the same time...  James did a great job of using his iPhone timer to make sure our meat was cooked enough.  I loved my meat course!  The French Quarter was great & spicy!  To make it through the Four Course Experience took about 2 or 2.5 hours!  (hmm... must not have gotten a photo of the salad course... ) It was so delicious, but we both over ate!  Yep.  Definitely reminded me of the S&TC episode where Charlotte & Harry get sick & yell "The fromage!" Haha.  If I go back I will go for Ladies Night on Wednesday (petit portions) or just for dessert. 

I am so proud of us hitting such an important goal of being out of consumer debt!  

Thursday, June 20

Rock It ~ Return It

So hopefully this post will be an easy one & done ;)

After much Pinterest research I decided I should DYI removing my gel manicure.  I found these beauties at CVS:



I have realized (by my slow self-awareness into my own passive-aggressive behavior) that my unending love & adoration for gel manicures is equally matched by my annoyance & frustration at how difficult they are to remove.  The true yin & yang.

It puts a burr in my saddle to make an appointment, drive to the nail salon, have them soak my nails in acetone, sit there 10 minutes... and then PAY THEM $10 !?!?!?!?!  Really?  I have a pretty good internal thermometer when it comes to getting what I pay for.  Maybe that's where the rub comes in.  I know $10 isn't a lot of money.  But I can sit in my own living room and watch my own TV (a channel I like) and sit my own hand in acetone.  AND have a whole meal from Chick-fil-A with a supersized Arnold Palmer, light ice. Thank you very much!  I don't mind spending money on things that are worth it - I can't color my hair or give myself a massage- but I do draw the line at nail polish removal.

Two events led to my self-awareness: first I selected a polish at my last manicure on the sole criteria that you won't be able to tell when it grows out.  Turns out it is now my favorite polish color Princesses Rule - on aesthetic grounds - and I bought the regular version at Ulta :) That's not why I picked it in the first place.  Second, I have been letting it grow out.  If you saw my hands up close & personal I would probably be embarrassed.  Every time I look at my nails I shudder a little when I remember the chapter in my How to be Elegant book at how elegant ladies never have chipped nails.  That ship sailed a long time ago.  But I just can't bring myself to go in & have the gel taken off.   I'm making a stand!

It's amazing the clarity that comes with self-awareness :)  I immediately searched on Pinterest to figure out how to remove gel nails.  Turns out it was as easy as I thought all along.  I just needed some acetone.  Thanks for the rescue CVS!

To paraphrase all the articles on Pinterest because they were pretty much the same, the steps are:

1) Wash your hands (OK this step wasn't on any of the Pinterest articles, but I believe any good nail story should start this way)
2) Gently file off the top layer of clear gel
3) Soak cotton in acetone & place on your nails
4) Use Gel Polish Remover Wipes to cover nails
5) Watch Fashion Police in the comfort of your own home
6) Use the included manicure stick to lift off the gel
7) TA DA! Now go put that $10 you saved to good use!  Why doesn't Chick-fil-a deliver?





The verdict ???

ROCK IT !!!

I am so glad this worked as well as it did!  I didn't realize until I had cut up some cotton rounds that the foil sheets had a cotton square on them already.  I ended up using the cotton rounds on my thumbs because they needed extra acetone to come off.  I did need to leave them on longer than the recommended 10-15 minutes on the box, but otherwise the whole process went very smooth.  The hardest part was how much to file off... Did I get the top layer off?  Am I filing too much?

Overall I am very impressed at how easy this is to do at home!  The kit includes 30 strips (I can remove two more manicures) so I will probably use the last one to make templates & cut my own foil.  Especially since I needed the cotton rounds for my thumbs, I have everything I need at home now.

Sunday, May 26

Senior PGA Championship

I am not a golfer.  I surprised myself at how much I loved going to the Senior PGA!

My Dad tried to teach me to golf in high school.  I thought it was super boring & too slow-paced.  I would go to the golf course with him occasionally to drive the cart.  Every now & then he would hit up to the green & let me put it in.  That was fun.  I am a mean mini-golfer :)  I think my prior lack of golf love primarily involved my parents rule: whatever my Dad spends on green fees Mamma Kay gets to spend that amount shopping.  I always went shopping.

I think golf as a sport is growing on me...  In addition to my Dad who is addicted to golf, my husband has taken up golf about a year or so ago (greatly encouraged by Dad).  Although I still think it's a little slow paced to watch on TV, I do support any sport that requires men to wear a collared shirt! :)  Helping James pick out golf clothes is super fun!  My little heart bleeds preppy.

Through work James & I won tickets to the 74th Senior PGA Championship at Bellerive Country Club.  Silly me thought senior meant veteran... I was expecting to see the big names in golf.  Turns out there were big names there, just OLD ones :)  Oh well...

The one surprise for me was you were not allowed to take photos AT ALL!  Not even on your phone! Crazy pants!  So we managed to snap a few photos at the entrance... But I wish I had more to share.

 Our tickets came with Etiquette rules!!!  Golf is winning me over :) 


 Entrance to Bellerive Country Club


The only photo of the course I was able to take from the entrance.


 Debut of my new Lilly Shorts!  They were right at home :) 

Overall I was very impressed with the day!  I definitely want to go to another golf tournament if I get the chance.  Our tickets also included a hospitality tent sponsored by the firm, that was very nice (aka free food & drinks all day!), air conditioned & had their own bathrooms!  We walked around the course & watched people golf.  I think the walking as a spectator makes it a lot more fun & less boring.  The tournament was sponsored by Kitchen-Aid, sadly I didn't win a new mixer!  But they did have all the new appliances on display!  I want a fancy kitchen so bad!!  The other big sponsor was Mercedes Benz.  James & I both wanted a fancy car, too.   Around the 8th or 9th hole we realized a Japanese man was close to overtaking the leader so we decided to follow him through the end.  He was able to win the tournament!  That was a lot of fun to watch.  Kinda funny - but they obviously didn't expect him to win- the media didn't have a Japanese interpreter to interview him.  The poor lady they found barely spoke English herself.   It was a great day & I am very happy that we were able to go!  Who knows, maybe I might pick up a pair of clubs myself someday soon :)

Friday, April 12

Seester's Wedding

It is difficult to put into words sometimes when utterly amazing things happen.  My sweet little Seeester got married, you could tell they were so happy & in love, it was beautiful, perfect for her.  I am so happy for her & the new chapter in her life of marriage.

Here are some photographs of the wedding at Sandals in St. Luica!





Rehearsal Dinner ~ James & I


Rehearsal Dinner ~ the new family James, me, Dad, Mamma Kay, JJ & Tim


 Gorgeous!


Seester & I at the reception :)  A&W


James doing his thang.



Taking full advantage of a flight to the Caribbean... James & I decided to stay an 4 extra days :)  Thanks to Living Social we had a pretty sweet 2 bedroom villa to relax in!  Here are some of our vacation pictures after the wedding was over.

I found my favorite type of RUM CAKE!!!!!! 
When we were going through customs I had to declare "rum cake" and "rum balls," the guy looked at my intake form & said "Really?"  haha


 Gorgeous beaches! 



 I can sure appreciate a good rum punch :) 


 Segway tour! aka James' favorite part of the trip






 Don't I belong on the beach?  My skin doesn't get to vote.


 My vacation obsession!!!  I seriously drank these the entire time!!


On the way to the airport home.  Please note James' vacation beard.  Ew.

Sunday, April 7

We Lost a Great Lady

Rest In Peace Lilly Pulitzer

There is a great article about her Biography & Obituary on Vogue UK.  And the Lilly story is also told on the blog Lilly Pulitzer: Our Story.

In addition to gorgeous clothing I really admired the Lilly story.  I am most impressed by women entrepreneurs who take something feminine they love & turn it into a great business.  More so than women who just succeed in a man's world.  That's why there are so many "how to succeed in business" books for women.  I think you're wired for the aggressive business world of typical corporate America, you force yourself to be someone else during the work day, or you recognize the value in what you love and create something amazing with it.  Something those men at the top would not even think of.  I hope to become like Martha Stewart who made a successful career out of baking cookies!  Or Julia Childs who re-taught us how to cook & appreciate real French foods!  Or Lilly who started a juice stand & realized she needed bright prints to hide the juice stains!


Thank you for bringing such beauty & happiness in all your designs!



Photo taken 4/7/13

Monday, April 1

Dinnertime

One of my "Daily Goals for a Fabulous 2013" is to eat more dinners at the table.

I looooooooooooove eating proper dinners :)  And I got James to use a placemat!  Baby steps.  Maybe someday we'll get to use the aubergine cloth napkins we got for our wedding.



Spaghetti, homemade red sauce, Italian sausage.  James' signature French Bred.  Red wine :)

Thursday, March 28

Wine Not?

James & I used our Groupon for a Wine Tasting Class last night at The Vino Gallery!  It was awesome :)  We went with our new church friends & had a great time!  It turned out to be more of a class on how the professionals taste wine - less of a schmorgazeboard of wine to taste.   James wasn't as into it as I was.  I absolutely LOVE school.  Although I was uncomfortable being in a classroom setting where I didn't know all the answers (nerd alert)!!  I want to study & take the class again (major nerd alert)!

The teacher, Rachel, is part owner of the wine store / art gallery & she is a certified sommelier, studying for an advanced designation.  And by "studying" she means drinking LOTS of wine!!!!!!  I was so jealous ~ James told me not to get any ideas...  She will be offering more classes soon & I hope to take some :)



It was all I could do to hold back & not ask her for the PowerPoint notes... 




James & I :)  So sweet of him to drive me to Wine Class :)




"You have to have a quality rosé for Easter" ~Rachel, my new favorite teacher! 


She also suggested taking notes on each wine you try so you can learn what you like & don't like.  There are apps for that!  How fun :)  I might have to go looking for them, or the gallery sold cute journals for wine tasting notes :) 

Thursday, February 21

New Stationery

I just love love love getting new things in the mail!  Call me old fashioned but something pretty via snail mail will always have a special place in my heart :)

During a recent office organization I realized my stationery box was dangerously depleted!  Understandable given wedding took over the last year and a half of my life.  I was only buying thank you cards!

The cards I added to my collection are from Ashley Brook Designs!  I love everything she does!!!






I hear a lot of ladies wishing they could be better about sending cards, the answer is simpler than you think.  They key to incorporating any new habit in your life is proximity.  If you want to eat healthy but stock no food in your fridge, you'll be heading to Chick-fil-a way more often than if you have a fridge stocked with veggies.  If you want to send cards keep some around the house!

My stationery collection is in a Library Office Storage Box from Container Store (plum of course!), it includes various cards, my favorite pen, stamps & address labels.  When I want to send a card it takes less than 5 minutes to open the box, write the card & get it ready to mail.   Right now I have the free tacky address labels from some non-profit, I have been meaning to update my monogram return address stamp with my new initials! :)



If you're new to creating a stationery collection I would suggest buying a box with lots of different cards inside.  I love this Kate Spade All Occasion Note Cards Gift Set from Papyrus ($35).   It comes with Congratulations, Happy Birthday, Get Well Soon, Hello & Thank You.  This would be perfect to keep on your desk, when the occasion arises it only takes a few minutes to write a quick note.

Or if you'd prefer to create it gradually many stores sell boxes of cards, like this cute Animal Print Boxed Thank You Cards from Target ($6).   Each time you go to Target you could grab one set of cards to gradually add to your collection.

If you are super crafty like my dear friend Elizabeth you can make your own cards!  Directions not found on this blog!!!  :)

Probably the most cost effective way is to buy a box of blank cards, then you can write any message you would like inside.  Café Chairs Note by Crane ($19).

For personalized notes there are great options from Etsy (very reasonable) or a stationery store, just depends on how much you'd like to spend.  Monogrammed Personalized Stationery Cards on Etsy ($18) or Personal Stationery Set also on Etsy ($15).

Another easy strategy (although more expensive) is to pick out cards for each individual occasion.  Or if you have specific people you want to buy an individualized car for this works well too.  When I am in Target, CVS, or the grocery store I always stop by the card aisle for a minute to ask myself two questions:
1)  What holidays are they featuring?
2)  Who's birthday is coming up in the next month?

Right now in Target I see St. Patricks Day, Easter Cards, my Dad's birthday is in March & the V-Day cards are on sale!  I will look through & pick an Easter card for my parents, a birthday card for my Dad & the formerly expensive Papryrus V-Day card with the hot sauce bottle on the front for next year :)  I will go home & add these to the stationery box.  When it is a few days until Dad's birthday I don't have to make a special trip to the store, I have his card already in my stationery box.

If you'd like tips for how to write thank you notes (I am forced to write this on a post it every time James needs to write a thank you) here is a great article from Southern Living (who else?) How to Write a Charming Thank You Note.


Friday, February 15

Valentine's Day

So basically I am in LOVE with Valentines' Day!  I always have been.  And no m'am I was not one of those girls who always had a boyfriend on V-Day.  Quite the opposite.  I think I was single most of them.  I know the people who like to wear black & label it as "Hallmark Capitalism" ~ boycotting a happy holiday seems very emotionally stable...  I just feel that a day dedicated to telling everyone in your life you care about them is awesome.  To me Val Day isn't about romantic love ~ it's about all love.

Put your phone down, stop the tweeting, tell people you love them today.

I love you ~  to my dear family & wonderful friends.  You bring joy to my life, and I love you.

I also love STEAK so I was wonderfully pleased by James' choice of restaurant Ruth's Chris!!!!


And now to the dress decision!

Drum roll please.....................................



I picked the Kate V Dress by Nicole Miller!!! 



Inspired by one of my favorite fashionistas, the one and only Kate Middleton!

Photo Credit:  Kate Middleton Style


Ruth's Chris had a photographer to document the evening.  


I was tempted to write a letter to Ruth's Chris management.  Maybe include a little education in the form of a syllogism:

Major Premise:  Valentine's Day dates are made to please women.
Minor Premise:  Women hate looking larger than they are on film.
Conclusion:  Fish eye lenses are the worst possible choice for Valentines Day.


James contributed some beautiful flowers & I contributed some yummy dessert!  



Hope you had a fabulous day full of love! 




Friday, January 25

Nail Obsession

Once you go shellac, you NEVER go back!!!

I have been turning down shellac (or gel) nails every time I'm in the nail salon.  I've heard they are fabulous.  Can't live without fabulous.  And the last thing I wanted to get addicted to was something that cost money every two weeks (hello college & acrylic fills!).

Erika & I went to get a pedicure right before closing & after they stayed late to do our pedicure they talked us into gel nails.  We were feeling guilty they stayed late.  Best guilt trip of my life.


Top picture ~ TWO Friday's ago right after the nail salon.
Bottom picture:  TWO WEEKS AFTERWARDS!!!   Basically they looked amazing.  If you were all up in my nails you could see they were growing out & the chip on my thumbnail.  But otherwise they held up like crazy!!!  And in all fairness the thumb chip happened when I ripped my whole closet apart (not normal wear & tear).

I went today to get them cut down & a new color.  This is officially my new paycheck ritual!!

Bonus ??? My local grocery store started carrying my FAVORITE sparkling juices!!

Monday, December 31

Celebratory Coupons

One of my favorite Birthday traditions is spending the coupon that Anthropologie sends :)  Although their clothes are rarely my style I love a lot of their house & home items.  The books this year are fabulous!!!  Here are some of my top choices...



  1. Foiled Dot Napkins
  2. Eiffel Tower Ring Dish
  3. Parisian Chic: A Style Guide
  4. Fleur De Lys Teapot
  5. 100 Years of Fashion
  6. Tall Mercury Glass Jar
  7. Monogram Keychain
  8. French Flair: Modern Vintage Interiors
  9. Hobnob Parlor Smoke Hurricane & Parlor Smoke Hurricane

So many fun options!!!  What to choose??? 

Duchess Envy

Today in church Darren asked us to contemplate some questions... one being "What do you daydream about?"  Besides asking James when I can be a stay at home wife, I usually daydream about being a princess.  Not the Disney kind, the Kate Middleton kind!!  I'm not usually the type to follow celebrity gossip or read those flashy magazines (no judgement), but I am in love/envy with the Duchess.  Mainly because she is able to find beautiful clothes with sleeves....  Still a mystery to me & I live in a climate where I need them!!  I am ardently happy she is bringing back classy style, our generation's Audrey.

While perusing one of my favorite blogs What Kate Wore I saw a link to Australian Vogue's article Kate's Best Looks of 2012...  Enjoy!

Here are some of my favorites :)








I guess the downside of being a Princess is being photographed everywhere... Ooopsy!  To my knowledge nobody documents my Lame Outfits!

One of the reasons that I love/envy Kate is she reminds me of when I was little & watching the Princess Di Biography special with my mother & hearing her tell stories about the Wedding. Mamma Kay- by the way- looks a LOT like Diana.  (Remember in the '90s when we thought William was the hot prince??)  I think when Lady Di passed away my love of royals went with her.  Until now :)