Sunday, June 23

Celebration Date

It sure feels good to celebrate accomplishments!  James did a great job of planning the evening :)  We had reservations at Melting Pot!  I have never been & was very impressed with the evening!  I will admit my prior feelings were, "They are charging us how much to cook our own food on the table?" :)


 The infamous "cheese course"




The dinner course:
Left~ my meat selection French Quarter (Cajun spices) and Right~ the Coq a Vin cooking sauce

 The dessert course ~ my favorite!!! 

I want to come back here & just eat the chocolate course!! 

We had a lovely & fun time eating here!  I will admit I was a little nervous about having raw meat & cooked meat on the table at the same time...  James did a great job of using his iPhone timer to make sure our meat was cooked enough.  I loved my meat course!  The French Quarter was great & spicy!  To make it through the Four Course Experience took about 2 or 2.5 hours!  (hmm... must not have gotten a photo of the salad course... ) It was so delicious, but we both over ate!  Yep.  Definitely reminded me of the S&TC episode where Charlotte & Harry get sick & yell "The fromage!" Haha.  If I go back I will go for Ladies Night on Wednesday (petit portions) or just for dessert. 

I am so proud of us hitting such an important goal of being out of consumer debt!  

Thursday, June 20

Rock It ~ Return It

So hopefully this post will be an easy one & done ;)

After much Pinterest research I decided I should DYI removing my gel manicure.  I found these beauties at CVS:



I have realized (by my slow self-awareness into my own passive-aggressive behavior) that my unending love & adoration for gel manicures is equally matched by my annoyance & frustration at how difficult they are to remove.  The true yin & yang.

It puts a burr in my saddle to make an appointment, drive to the nail salon, have them soak my nails in acetone, sit there 10 minutes... and then PAY THEM $10 !?!?!?!?!  Really?  I have a pretty good internal thermometer when it comes to getting what I pay for.  Maybe that's where the rub comes in.  I know $10 isn't a lot of money.  But I can sit in my own living room and watch my own TV (a channel I like) and sit my own hand in acetone.  AND have a whole meal from Chick-fil-A with a supersized Arnold Palmer, light ice. Thank you very much!  I don't mind spending money on things that are worth it - I can't color my hair or give myself a massage- but I do draw the line at nail polish removal.

Two events led to my self-awareness: first I selected a polish at my last manicure on the sole criteria that you won't be able to tell when it grows out.  Turns out it is now my favorite polish color Princesses Rule - on aesthetic grounds - and I bought the regular version at Ulta :) That's not why I picked it in the first place.  Second, I have been letting it grow out.  If you saw my hands up close & personal I would probably be embarrassed.  Every time I look at my nails I shudder a little when I remember the chapter in my How to be Elegant book at how elegant ladies never have chipped nails.  That ship sailed a long time ago.  But I just can't bring myself to go in & have the gel taken off.   I'm making a stand!

It's amazing the clarity that comes with self-awareness :)  I immediately searched on Pinterest to figure out how to remove gel nails.  Turns out it was as easy as I thought all along.  I just needed some acetone.  Thanks for the rescue CVS!

To paraphrase all the articles on Pinterest because they were pretty much the same, the steps are:

1) Wash your hands (OK this step wasn't on any of the Pinterest articles, but I believe any good nail story should start this way)
2) Gently file off the top layer of clear gel
3) Soak cotton in acetone & place on your nails
4) Use Gel Polish Remover Wipes to cover nails
5) Watch Fashion Police in the comfort of your own home
6) Use the included manicure stick to lift off the gel
7) TA DA! Now go put that $10 you saved to good use!  Why doesn't Chick-fil-a deliver?





The verdict ???

ROCK IT !!!

I am so glad this worked as well as it did!  I didn't realize until I had cut up some cotton rounds that the foil sheets had a cotton square on them already.  I ended up using the cotton rounds on my thumbs because they needed extra acetone to come off.  I did need to leave them on longer than the recommended 10-15 minutes on the box, but otherwise the whole process went very smooth.  The hardest part was how much to file off... Did I get the top layer off?  Am I filing too much?

Overall I am very impressed at how easy this is to do at home!  The kit includes 30 strips (I can remove two more manicures) so I will probably use the last one to make templates & cut my own foil.  Especially since I needed the cotton rounds for my thumbs, I have everything I need at home now.

Wednesday, June 19

Laundry Time

It's laundry time!  Why am I online shopping?  Who knows really.  I think my body shops as a biological impulse.  Inherited obviously- y'all do know Mamma Kay, right?  Even if I don't buy anything I love online shopping.  When I need a quick break at work I online shop.  Just to see what's out there :)

I do need to get my booty in gear and do some laundry!  James & I have decided to avoid ending our marriage in that weird stage of "could this count as an annulment it was so short" that we do our own laundry.  James does three loads of laundry once a week- lights, darks & towels/miscellaneous items.   The first time I saw this it FREAKED ME OUT!  (When I met James he paid the dry cleaners to launder all his clothes.  True story.)  I probably wash 20 different loads of laundry... I do separate clothes in the hamper by white/neutrals, cools/darks, warm/pinks.  But when it comes time to do laundry I wash my delicate cool/darks, then the everyday clothes, then the jeans, I wash sweaters by them selves, bras by them selves.  Lululemon by itself (I think this flabbergasts James the most).  Occasionally I'll get so tired after vacation that I will wash swimming-suits with Lulu, but those lapses in judgement are very rare.  I need a chart to explain it to anyone.  Due to the intricacies of my laundering habits it takes me a good month or two to accumulate enough in various categories to have a full load of laundry.  Hence the separate laundry truce of 2012.

I need to wash my Spanx!  Because James & I are going on a very special date this weekend :)  We hit a milestone of being completely out of consumer debt!  This was one of the first goals we made when we got married - to be done with debt before our first anniversary.  We still have car, student loans & house left, and will probably start our next phase of getting out of debt soon but we are taking a night to CELEBRATE!  I guess it's good that two people who work in finance are out of debt! Haha.  Thank goodness for James, because I am not good at sticking to a budget.  And I love shopping.  (see first paragraph)

I was talking to a friend who was nervous about starting to get her finances in order.  It's exactly like losing weight.  Everyone knows how to (eat less/spend less + exercise/save more + choose quality = progress) not everyone has self discipline.   I had a bad habit in college/grad school of falling in love with a pair of shoes I couldn't afford.  Buying them.  Then eating OATMEAL three times a day until my next paycheck.  Like it takes a rocket scientist to figure out that's not healthy.

Anyways I digress.... My neutral Spanx/ neutral bras are done in the washing machine! Time to line dry!  I am so looking forward to our date night!  I probably need a new outfit!!!  :-D

Monday, June 10

B*Fest 2013 ~ Chicago

Yaaaaaaaaaaaaay!  I love seeing my sweet friends from ACU, sorority sisters, bridesmaids, besties ~ isn't it great to have such fun friends???

This year for our annual girls trip Kylee Ann, Elizabeth & myself had a lovely long weekend in Chicago!   Welcome to the post of 1 million pictures!

We stayed at the Chicago Getaway Hostel in Lincoln Park.  Elizabeth & I have stayed there before, it is a great location, very clean & they offer individual rooms with bathrooms.  The rooms are very sparse, cinder block walls painted white, bunk beds & a desk.  Basically we relived our lives in Gardner Hall :)  Without the curfew! haha

Our weekend was filled with girl talk (obviously), seeing a gorgeous city, taking pictures of architecture, enjoying the quirky neighborhood, sight-seeing, eating tons of delicious food, drinking many a delicious beverage, just doing what we do best!  (Ash I missed you every second!)


How nice of the hostel to suggest activities :)  



My dream house is for sale! 

 Meatball sandwich!!!!!   From The Pasta Bowl





Sangria & more from Taco Joint ~ a FAVORITE in Chi-town!

Guacamole sampler!


Tacos!! 







It was so cold for July!  Warming up with some Irish Coffee at The Galloway Arms



This was my favorite house!  Would you like to come over for a rooftop party? 

Mimosas & bellinis taste so much better with fresh squeezed Juice! 







The Art Institute of Chicago

Rothko

 Rothko

 Pollock

 Pollock

 Monet

 Monet

Monet

 Van Gogh

Picasso

Dali ~ you crazy man you

Chagall

My nerdy fun moment ~ the reassembled original trading floor from the Chicago Exchange!




Bridge from the Art Institute to Millennium Park

Chicago Blues Festival


Buckingham Fountain

How many Elizabeth's do you see?


This is my new favorite place!!!  And they started following me on Instagram after this photo!! 



Tiffany's had Gatsby themed window displays! 


And absolute wonderful Italian place! Chicago Pizza & Oven Grinder Co.

The mediterranean flatbread appetizer! 

The house specialty "Pizza Pot Pies" ~ fabulous!




Our last brunch of the weekend!  AKA I really love food pictures... AKA Kylee really loves sausage...



The Crazy Bag Lady





Goodbye photos on the El !  Much love to you sweet girls, this trip is the highlight of my summer!


Until next year.... :)